November 9
Page 78

Ian never yells at me, which is the only reason I pull the covers from over my head and look up at him. “You aren’t the only one hurting, Ben! We have shit to figure out! You’re sixteen years old and you can’t live here alone and if you don’t come downstairs and prove to me and Kyle that this didn’t completely fuck you up, then we’re probably going to make the wrong decision for you!”
His jaw is twitching, he’s so mad.
I think about this for a second. About how neither of them lives here. Ian is in flight school. Ben just started college. My mother is dead.
One of them is going to have to move back home because I’m a minor.
“Do you think mom thought of that?” I ask, sitting up on the bed again.
Ian shakes his head in frustration. His hands drop to his hips. “Thought about what?”
“That her decision to kill herself would force one of you to give up your dream? That you’d have to move back home to take care of your brother?”
Ian shakes his head, confused. “Of course she thought about that.”
I laugh. “No, she didn’t. She’s a selfish fucking bitch.”
His jaw hardens. “Stop.”
“I hate her, Ian. I’m glad she’s dead. And I’m glad I was the one who found her, because now I’ll always have the visual of how the black hole in her face matched the black hole in her heart.”
He closes the gap between us and grabs the collar of my shirt, shoving me back down on the bed. He brings his face close to mine and talks through tightly gritted teeth. “You shut your fucking mouth, Ben. She loved you. She was a good mother to us and you’ll respect her, do you hear me? I don’t care if she can see you right now or not, you’ll respect her in this house until the day you die.”
My eyes rim with tears and I’m suffocating with hatred. How could he defend her?
I guess it’s easy when his memory of her isn’t tarnished by the visual I got when I walked into her room.
A tear falls from Ian’s eye and lands on my cheek.
His grip loosens from around my neck and he turns around and buries his head in his hands. “I’m sorry,” he says, his voice tearful. “I’m sorry, Ben.”
I’m not.
He turns around and looks at me, not even attempting to hide his tears. “I just . . . how can you say that? Knowing what she was going through . . .”
I chuckle under my breath. “She broke up with her boyfriend, Ian. That hardly constitutes misery.”
He turns until he’s facing me on the bed. He tilts his head. “Ben . . . did you not read it?”
I shrug. “Read what?”
He sighs heavily, and then stands. “Her note. Did you not read the letter she left before the police took it?”
I swallow hard. I knew that’s where he went yesterday. I knew it.
He runs his hands through his hair. “Oh, my God. I thought you read it.” He walks out of my bedroom. “I’ll be back in half an hour.”
He’s not lying. It’s exactly thirty-three minutes when he walks back through my bedroom door. I spent the entire time wondering what could be in that letter that would make the difference between me hating her and Ian feeling sorry for her.
He pulls a piece of paper out of his pocket. “They can’t release the actual letter yet. They took a photo and printed it out, but you can still read it.” He hands me the piece of paper.
He walks out of my bedroom and closes my door.
I sit back on my bed and read the last words my mother will ever say to me.
To my boys,
I’ve spent my entire life studying writing. No writing course . . . no amount of college . . . no life experience could ever prepare a person to write an adequate suicide note for their children. But I’m sure as hell going to try.
First, I want to explain why I’ve done this. I know you don’t understand it. And Ben, you’re probably the first one reading this, since I’m sure you were the first to find me. So please read this letter in its entirety before you decide to hate me.
I found out four months ago that I have ovarian cancer. Brutal, unbeatable, silent cancer that spread before I even developed symptoms. And before you get angry and say I gave up, that’s the last thing I would do. If my illness was something I could fight, you boys know I would have fought it with everything I have. But that’s the thing about cancer. They call it the fight, as if the stronger ones win and the weaker ones lose, but that’s not what cancer is at all.
Cancer isn’t one of the players in the game. Cancer is the game.
It doesn’t matter how much endurance you have. It doesn’t matter how much you’ve practiced. Cancer is the be-all and end-all of the sport, and the only thing you can do is show up to the game with your jersey on. Because you never know . . . you might be forced to sit the bench for the entire game. You may not even be given the chance to compete.
That’s me. I’m being forced to sit the bench until the game is over, because there’s nothing more that can be done for me. I could go into all the details, but the fact of the matter is, they caught it too late.
So now comes the tricky part.
Do I wait it out? Do I allow the cancer to slowly rob me of everything I have? You boys remember Grandpa Dwight, and how cancer completely swallowed him up, but refused to spit him out for months. Grandma had to alter her entire life to care for him. She lost her job, the home medical bills piled up, and they eventually lost their house. She was evicted two weeks after he finally died. All because the cancer took its precious time with him.