“Yeah?” I answer, knowing this call is important.
“She called.”
I let out a breath I didn’t know I was holding and ask what I needed to know. “She sound okay?”
“She didn’t sound too bad, but I could hear a little panic. You sure this is a good idea?”
Am I sure? Fuck, I’m not sure of anything these days. “I don’t know what else to do, Holly. I’ve tried talking to her. She just shuts down. She won’t go to the doctors. I’m not going to force her, but we can’t keep doing everything for her. Besides, Z is there and I trust that she will cope.” I believe those words leaving my mouth more than anything. Kadence would never do anything to hurt Low. Her fears and insecurities come from the idea of failing Low or not being the best for her. This fucked-up thinking she has is only amplified by the fact that Low just won’t settle.
“You should talk to her, Nix. Tell her what you need from her.”
“I’ve tried, Hol. She won’t listen. The only way I can help her is by showing her this isn’t normal.”
“We both know she’s aware it’s not normal, Nix.”
“Well, if you have a better idea, have at it!” I snap, taking my frustration out on her. I hear Sy in the background, and I know he’ll be pissed if I upset his woman. “Sorry, I’m just trying to deal.”
“It’s okay. You’re tired. I’m not just worried about her but about you, too.”
“Don’t worry about me. Let’s just focus on Kadence, yeah?” I ask, not needing a therapy session. I just need my fucking wife back.
“Mom and I are going to come over tomorrow. We can talk to her again then,” she says, giving me some small hope.
“Call Kadence’s mom. You’ll need reinforcements,” I add, knowing how bad she was today. Maybe if she hears if from all four of us together, she might listen to what we have to say.
“Right, okay, well, keep me posted,” she rushes, ending the conversation. I know she likes to think she has it under control, but Holly feels as helpless as I do.
“Yeah,” I reply before hanging up. I pocket my phone and rest my head on the desk. Jesus, who would have thought ten months ago this is where we would be? Me, hanging in my fucking office, hiding from my wife.
Unease settles in my gut. Feeling disconnected with her burns me, but what eats at me more than anything is knowing she is suffering. Whatever is going on, I just wish we could fucking sort it, move on from it and be a fucking family again.
I fucking miss my wife.
***
“How you doin’, bud?” I ask Z as I walk through the door a few hours later. After I got off the phone with Holly, I lost myself in some paperwork. During the past seven weeks, I’ve neglected my duties in the club. Beau, my VP, has had to step up and take on my work while the rest of the boys have been dealing with their own shit: Sy with Inked Me, and Jesse with Liquid.
“Good,” Z mumbles, continuing into the kitchen. I follow behind him feeling some tension.
“You okay?” I put my keys and wallet down on the counter and watch him carefully.
“You told her thirty minutes,” he snaps, anger dancing in my son’s eyes.
He’s pissed.
“She okay?” I ask, not certain I want to know the answer.
“She’s hiding in the bathroom.” He places his dish in the sink, starting to wash it. I don’t respond. I just watch him.
If Kadence is in the bathroom, then he’s been looking after Low.
“Low okay?” I swallow past the anger and defeat that begins to grow. I hate this, fucking hate it for Z and Low, but hate it more for Kadence.
“I rocked her ‘til she fell asleep.”
“You’re a good big brother, Z.” I give him a smile. He doesn’t smile back; instead, he looks so confused.
“What’s happening, Dad?” he asks straight to the point, looking as unsure as I feel. I step forward and wrap my arms around him. Fuck, when did he get so grown up?
“We got some shit to get through, bud, but we’re gonna get there. Know that we are gonna fix it.” I kiss the top of his head.
“Is it something that I did?” his small voice asks. And the young man who just called me out for taking longer than I should have, seems so small; worried he’s done something to cause the darkness in our home.
“Bud, this isn’t about you. I promise. This is somethin’ that Kadence and I need to work through.”
“But I don’t want you to get a divorce.” His arms squeeze me on the last word. Fuck me. Divorce?
“Hey.” I pull back, looking him straight in his eyes. “That’s not ever gonna happen, Z. I promise you. Sometimes it takes a while to adjust with a new baby. You have nothin’ to worry about, okay?” I hold his gaze, needing him to understand this isn’t about him. He slowly nods in my arms as I hold him a little longer before I step back. “You okay?” I ask, watching him wipe his eyes. It’s moments like this, I want to shake her, show her what she is missing. The Kadence I knew would rather die than hurt our son, but now, he’s standing in front of me trying to hold his shit together and she wouldn’t give one fuck.
“Yeah, I’m gonna go play Xbox.” He walks out and I give myself a moment to cool down. Fuck. I knew things were bad, knew I was losing control, but I thought I was protecting Z from it. I was clearly fucking wrong.
“She called.”
I let out a breath I didn’t know I was holding and ask what I needed to know. “She sound okay?”
“She didn’t sound too bad, but I could hear a little panic. You sure this is a good idea?”
Am I sure? Fuck, I’m not sure of anything these days. “I don’t know what else to do, Holly. I’ve tried talking to her. She just shuts down. She won’t go to the doctors. I’m not going to force her, but we can’t keep doing everything for her. Besides, Z is there and I trust that she will cope.” I believe those words leaving my mouth more than anything. Kadence would never do anything to hurt Low. Her fears and insecurities come from the idea of failing Low or not being the best for her. This fucked-up thinking she has is only amplified by the fact that Low just won’t settle.
“You should talk to her, Nix. Tell her what you need from her.”
“I’ve tried, Hol. She won’t listen. The only way I can help her is by showing her this isn’t normal.”
“We both know she’s aware it’s not normal, Nix.”
“Well, if you have a better idea, have at it!” I snap, taking my frustration out on her. I hear Sy in the background, and I know he’ll be pissed if I upset his woman. “Sorry, I’m just trying to deal.”
“It’s okay. You’re tired. I’m not just worried about her but about you, too.”
“Don’t worry about me. Let’s just focus on Kadence, yeah?” I ask, not needing a therapy session. I just need my fucking wife back.
“Mom and I are going to come over tomorrow. We can talk to her again then,” she says, giving me some small hope.
“Call Kadence’s mom. You’ll need reinforcements,” I add, knowing how bad she was today. Maybe if she hears if from all four of us together, she might listen to what we have to say.
“Right, okay, well, keep me posted,” she rushes, ending the conversation. I know she likes to think she has it under control, but Holly feels as helpless as I do.
“Yeah,” I reply before hanging up. I pocket my phone and rest my head on the desk. Jesus, who would have thought ten months ago this is where we would be? Me, hanging in my fucking office, hiding from my wife.
Unease settles in my gut. Feeling disconnected with her burns me, but what eats at me more than anything is knowing she is suffering. Whatever is going on, I just wish we could fucking sort it, move on from it and be a fucking family again.
I fucking miss my wife.
***
“How you doin’, bud?” I ask Z as I walk through the door a few hours later. After I got off the phone with Holly, I lost myself in some paperwork. During the past seven weeks, I’ve neglected my duties in the club. Beau, my VP, has had to step up and take on my work while the rest of the boys have been dealing with their own shit: Sy with Inked Me, and Jesse with Liquid.
“Good,” Z mumbles, continuing into the kitchen. I follow behind him feeling some tension.
“You okay?” I put my keys and wallet down on the counter and watch him carefully.
“You told her thirty minutes,” he snaps, anger dancing in my son’s eyes.
He’s pissed.
“She okay?” I ask, not certain I want to know the answer.
“She’s hiding in the bathroom.” He places his dish in the sink, starting to wash it. I don’t respond. I just watch him.
If Kadence is in the bathroom, then he’s been looking after Low.
“Low okay?” I swallow past the anger and defeat that begins to grow. I hate this, fucking hate it for Z and Low, but hate it more for Kadence.
“I rocked her ‘til she fell asleep.”
“You’re a good big brother, Z.” I give him a smile. He doesn’t smile back; instead, he looks so confused.
“What’s happening, Dad?” he asks straight to the point, looking as unsure as I feel. I step forward and wrap my arms around him. Fuck, when did he get so grown up?
“We got some shit to get through, bud, but we’re gonna get there. Know that we are gonna fix it.” I kiss the top of his head.
“Is it something that I did?” his small voice asks. And the young man who just called me out for taking longer than I should have, seems so small; worried he’s done something to cause the darkness in our home.
“Bud, this isn’t about you. I promise. This is somethin’ that Kadence and I need to work through.”
“But I don’t want you to get a divorce.” His arms squeeze me on the last word. Fuck me. Divorce?
“Hey.” I pull back, looking him straight in his eyes. “That’s not ever gonna happen, Z. I promise you. Sometimes it takes a while to adjust with a new baby. You have nothin’ to worry about, okay?” I hold his gaze, needing him to understand this isn’t about him. He slowly nods in my arms as I hold him a little longer before I step back. “You okay?” I ask, watching him wipe his eyes. It’s moments like this, I want to shake her, show her what she is missing. The Kadence I knew would rather die than hurt our son, but now, he’s standing in front of me trying to hold his shit together and she wouldn’t give one fuck.
“Yeah, I’m gonna go play Xbox.” He walks out and I give myself a moment to cool down. Fuck. I knew things were bad, knew I was losing control, but I thought I was protecting Z from it. I was clearly fucking wrong.
